How to be less judgemental?

Zee
2 min readOct 2, 2021
Photo by Randy Jacob on Unsplash

Since childhood, I’ve tried not to easily judge others. It was cause I realized that I had many flaws that were more worthy to be judged. Therefore, it made me not understand how to love myself properly. But that’s totally okay.

Perhaps, someone who gets angry easily because of their home situation makes them emotionally unstable. So, with such thoughts, we can understand by not scolding them back.

Instead of judging people, it’s better to ask yourself, “What mistake I have done for today?” and there are many things I need to improve.

People’s ideas take many forms. Perhaps, what they think is not entirely the same as us. It’s better for us to understand and listen carefully to what they’re talking about. And we become less judgemental because we try to understand that one day we will definitely make mistakes. We can treat people the way we want to be treated.

At first, it was hard to do, but we can because we used to do it. Another way to be less judgemental is that we recognize that being human is very complicated. We can acquire that people are bad and good at the same time. That’s called a human being.

With that kind of mindset, we can become less judgemental. Besides, we can learn to accept humans as they should.

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